r/INTP May 10 '21

Meme INTP is the spoopyest MBTI.

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152 Upvotes

r/EliteDangerous Feb 03 '21

Humor Lakon Transporter vs. Volkswagen Transporter in flight

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2k Upvotes

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COMMENT 9h ago

Well, if you're a successful and happy INTP, you're probably not doom-scrolling and posting self-hate memes on reddit now are ya?

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COMMENT 4d ago

If you want to, you can also frame extroversion as a disorder: Many extroverts are unable to spend prolonged periods alone without becoming unhappy, restless or anxious. That's not very adaptive.

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COMMENT 13d ago

Sleep deprived and spaced out, seems about right!

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COMMENT 15d ago

I know it's tough. Try to find markets or shops that sells fresh veggies every day: In my city they're often run by foreigners, and are located in the parts of town where foreigners live. Some of these kinds of shops have really great prices. If you only have time to shop once a week, remember that you can freeze some of the veggies bought at a market, if you're not able to eat them all before they go bad in the fridge!

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COMMENT 16d ago

You claim there is another comment you have made that is citing sources backing up what you said and addressing what you call "mix match" genitals, but that's not true. As of my last comment, I have replied to all your comments in this comment section that show up for me. You have not answered anywhere with any sources or counter arguments against why the definitions "chromosomes determine sex" AND "reproductive cell production determines your sex" both lead to more than 2 sexes (at least 6 or 4, respectively). Try again. EDIT: Oh, I see what's happening here. You are not actually addressing or answering the meat of the arguments or sources that are posed against you by anyone in this comment section, and are only diverting from having an actual discussion. And then you accuse us of doing that exact thing to you.

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COMMENT 16d ago

Here is a question for you to google and look at the first result of: "What is critical thinking?"

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COMMENT 16d ago

Some people then by definition are both female and male at the same time (certain intersex conditions where people have both functioning testicles and ovaries), and some people are neither male nor female (born without functioning ovaries or testicles). So there needs to be at least 4 sex categories for people if all people are to have a sex, and the production of reproductive cells are to be used to define a persons sex.

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COMMENT 16d ago

When we talk about "more than 2 sexes" or "intersex conditions", we are talking about chromosome configurations other than the commonly known XX ("female") and XY ("male"). Many people have X, XXY, XYY, or XXXY chromosome configurations. Some of the people that have these less common chromosome configurations have combinations of male and female primary and secondary sex characteristics. These have historically been called "hermafrodites". But many of the people with these less common chromosome configurations have no visible signs that they are not actually regular XX women or XY men, so they go their whole lives without knowing.

If it is the case that your chromosomes determine your sex (and this is a common "fact" used as an argument by "only 2 genders"-people), then there are at least 6 sexes.

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COMMENT 16d ago

When we talk about "more than 2 sexes" or "intersex conditions", we are talking about chromosome configurations other than the commonly known XX ("female") and XY ("male"). Many people have X, XXY, XYY, or XXXY chromosome configurations. Some of the people that have these less common chromosome configurations have combinations of male and female primary and secondary sex characteristics. These have historically been called "hermafrodites". But many of the people with these less common chromosome configurations have no visible signs that they are not actually regular XX women or XY men, so they go their whole lives without knowing.

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COMMENT 16d ago

Some vegetables are magnitudes cheaper than others per pound. To find the best prices look at what's in season AND locally grown, that's usually cheaper. Buying from farmers markets can be cheaper in some areas too. A meal of fresh veggies + potatoes/rice/pasta + proteins is almost always cheaper than canned/microwave/fast food alternatives.

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COMMENT 23d ago

Tolkien says gender or sex is inherent to each individual Valar and to each individual human, and is not determined by the clothes they choose to wear. That's not equal to saying trans rights. Such an opinion is also held by TERFS and transphobes.

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COMMENT Jun 25 '21

Whoa, 0 Fe is impressive.

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COMMENT Jun 17 '21

Broke: Twas my dad who fucked the dragon

Woke: Twas my mum who fucked the dragon

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COMMENT Jun 16 '21

Whoa, your scores are so high! My TI and Ne are 36, my Si is 9.

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COMMENT Jun 07 '21

First time a swung my GB forest axe into a branch it cut so well it had me giggling like a girl. Have fun, and take care of it!

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COMMENT Jun 06 '21

My head-canon is that the male human pala/fighter is wearing thigh highs and a belly dancing loincloth.

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COMMENT May 26 '21

Not true! "Screen Cheat" is a 4 player couch PvP FPS game where you can only see your own character by looking at the screens of the other characters. So not only is it 2nd person, but that is the main game mechanic.

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COMMENT May 23 '21

It's beautiful, I love it!

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COMMENT May 21 '21

I had this bug before Odyssey

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COMMENT May 19 '21

There are big red flags from both of you in this post.

  1. Did you cry for 20 minutes before meeting her, and it didn't occur to neither of you that you should both be pulling the breaks for your sake? Seems like neither you nor your boyfriend respect your sexual boundaries or feelings.
  2. When your SO is showing vulnerability and telling you they are bummed, you chose to actively ignore it because he should know better than thinking you'd want to hear about and acknowledge his feelings? Seems like you don't care about or respect your boyfriends feelings either, just like neither of you respect your feelings when it comes to having a threesome. If you signal to him that his feelings are not valid or worth your care, you contribute to destroying his sense of self worth, and sending him into depression. You don't have to agree to a threesome to fix this, just acknowledge that it's valid that he is feeling bummed out.
  3. When he tries his best at open communication and asks you straight forward about your boundaries when it comes to opening up the relationship, you're offended because he couldn't read you mind and know that you didn't want that? It seems like you think he is a bad person for simply feeling the way he does, wanting the things he wants, and not knowing what you think or that you want different things. Your boyfriends desires and feelings are not his choice. His only choice is to communicate with you, which is good. What he desires and asks for is not inherently bad or hurtful to you: that is entirely about your individual emotional reaction, which only you are responsible for.

Our society is mostly geared for heterosexual monogamy, which often makes us feel like desiring something else is wrong and unreasonable, or that if you want something else then you don't love or care for your partner. Don't fall into this trap of thinking that socially acceptable equals morally sound. Most people are not truly monogamous in their desires, most people aren't even truly straight. So even if we chose to live monogamous lives and love our partner dearly, we should not be ashamed and secretive about other desires. Sharing these desires with out partner can be conducive to deepening the bond, and not sharing them can lead to an ever growing rift.

In a serious relationship it is important to be able to communicate openly to your partner about the things that concern you, your feelings and desires, and to be able to listen to and acknowledge your partner respectfully and caringly, even if you are not willing to open up for experimentation (which is of course completely valid!). If either partner feels like they can't speak their mind, then resentment, loneliness and grief will build over time.

If you want to fix this, you have to take responsibility for the ways in which you can improve at communicating and listening without judgement. You two want different things, that does not make either of you a bad person. It just means you're incompatible. Even if you set down a boundary that a threesome is out of the question for you, which is completely valid, that does not mean he has to bottle up all his emotions and desires on that topic forever. You can both choose to treat each other respectfully and with kindness when it comes to processing these differences feelings and desires.

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COMMENT May 19 '21

Yes, this is exactly what this sub needs! Developing some self-leadership skills.

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COMMENT May 19 '21

That makes a lot of sense! In new and strange social situations I often become this whole ass other person: Outgoing, confident, decisive. And people around me often get magnetized and charmed by it. Feels quite backwards. But if the shadow comes out under stress, and my shadow is an ENTJ, it makes sense that it shows in new social situations (that would count as a stress situation for most introverts).

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COMMENT May 18 '21

Why is ENTJ called the shaddow of INTP? I've always thought that ENTJ is the kind of person I aspire to develop towards, so that resonated with me.