A few months ago I came here to talk about my fear of opening up to my partner. And I wanted to let everybody know that I told my partner about my trauma after telling my therapist. It was scary, but I did it. And while it did change our relationship; it did so for the better. It explained some of my behaviors and it helped us both in the end. We are approaching our one year anniversary and I’ve never felt safer with anybody else in my life. It was scary, it was painful, but I did it. And to anybody else who is afraid; you can too.