r/TrueOffMyChest May 04 '21

I tried to make my relationship work while my GF sells nudes but I just can’t do it anymore.

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u/Maritimerintraining May 04 '21

Lots of people telling you to end it, but don't highlight the last line that you're really emotionally invested. Talk to her about it, and see how she responds. Be open and honest, and just see if that resonates.

If it doesn't, then you have a decision to make. People shouldn't shame her for selling nudes, but at the same time, she should validate how that is making you feel, and how much it is impacting you. If she does care for you, she should listen to your concerns.

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u/corvusaraneae May 04 '21

This comment really should be higher.

Communication, OP. Definitely communicate. Tell her about your concerns. Explain how it makes you feel. Hopefully the two of you can come to a compromise.