r/TrueOffMyChest May 04 '21

I tried to make my relationship work while my GF sells nudes but I just can’t do it anymore.

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u/bedgasm_for_one May 04 '21 edited May 04 '21

Oh man I know exactly what this is like. When I did something similar (not OF but a different site), I did NOT wanna have sex with my BF. I didn't want anything to do with anything sexual because I lived and breathed sex 10 hours a day. Women don't know how much of a toll it is on your relationships or mental health when doing OF or any other cam site. I wrote a whole thing about the side effects of being an OF girl on reddit. It's exhausting, it fucks up your mental health, and it can potentially put you in danger and after all that, I quit. And I'm glad I did.

Edit: DEFINIETLEY miss the money though, not gunna lie.

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u/supplyncommand May 04 '21

ya i don’t think people realize what you have to sacrifice in order to sell yourself for that kind of money. for a healthy relationship to end like OPs as a repercussion is sad. like any job you have to have a healthy balance. no different than if OP was in the office 80 hrs a week or out of town 8 weeks at a time. your partner is left emotionally and physically uninvested. i think a lot of the gals that do OF have a lot of maturing and growing up to do. comes with the line of work. i lost my gf due to her getting so much attention as a bartender. she didn’t know how to handle it or balance her life outside of work. everyone became her friend and the money flowed in. honestly if OF were around 5 years ago she probably would’ve done that too. she struggled with school and got into drugs. very difficult lifestyle to maintain and now she’s not doing so well. i wish things would’ve went differently. so im probably jaded but i feel bad for OP or any guy having to deal with someone who sells themselves like that. it’s too much to handle mentally

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u/Dong_Hung_lo May 04 '21

Does everyone here know what OF stands for except me? I googled it and got Open Firmware and Operation Firestorm amongst others. I’m not sure any of them fit the context.

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u/Wahpaw May 04 '21

ODD FUTURE WOLF GANG KILL THEM ALL

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u/IcebergSlimFast May 04 '21

Of all people you, u/Dong_Hung_lo, should know what OF stands for.

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u/ChazCharlie May 04 '21

Maybe his name is literal and he's never needed such a site.

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u/LosingOxygen May 04 '21

Oriface fisting